Peggy Kleinplatz names eight components of optimal sexuality. And not a single one of them is “You are married”. The first component that she talks about is the ability to be present, to be focused, to be embodied. And being present and focused on what's happening in the moment actually allows you to move into your body and to be aware of what's happening in your body, to be aware of the physical sensations that you're experiencing.

In connection to this episode, the reason that we don't talk about sex here on Sunday school, the reason that talking about sex is dangerous is because it threatens the dogma, the doctrine, and the belief structure that holds together religious communities. By talking about sex, you threaten the very foundation of an institution.